Care home couple celebrate platinum wedding anniversary

“Seventy years, and we still laugh every day,” Roger said, smiling as he reflected on his platinum wedding anniversary with his beloved wife, Audrey.

On 19th February 2025, Purley Gardens Care Home became a place of joy and love as residents, staff, and family gathered to honour Roger and Audrey’s incredible 70 years of marriage.

The special day was marked with congratulations from King Charles III and Queen Camilla, a private family lunch, and a delightful afternoon tea shared with fellow residents.

"We never imagined we’d reach this milestone, but here we are, still holding hands and making memories," added Roger, 98. "Our journey together has been filled with love, laughter, and countless unforgettable moments."

Roger and Audrey’s love story began in the summer of 1954 in Southend-on-Sea when a blind date led to love at first sight.

Just three weeks later, they were engaged, and in February 1955, they married at St Andrew’s Church in Winchester.

Throughout their marriage Roger, from Southampton, dedicated his life to education, shaping young minds, while Audrey, from Winchester, was a radiographer.

Together, they raised two children, Helen and Kate and moved across the country to Devon 24 years ago.

In retirement, the couple enjoyed a peaceful life in Devon before settling at Purley Gardens Care Home, located in Surrey and owned by Avery Healthcare, in 2024 to be closer to family.

When asked about the secret to a long and happy marriage, Audrey simply said, “Marry the right man! Don’t argue and always embrace new interests.” Roger added, “Love, patience, and shared experiences.”

Their daughter Helen said: “Our parents have been an inspiration. Their unwavering love and support continue to shape our lives, and we are overjoyed to celebrate this milestone with them.”

"We’ve made so many wonderful memories here at Purley Gardens," Audrey reflected. "It’s been a joy to continue our journey together in such a caring and supportive place."

"Purley Gardens has been a wonderful place for us," Roger agreed. "We’ve made new friends, and the care here has been exceptional. It’s a new chapter for us, and we feel so lucky to be here together."

Gregg Bielinski, general manager at Purley Gardens Care Home stated, “At Purley Gardens, we believe in caring, sharing, and giving. We warmly welcome everyone who comes to live with us, and our dedicated team works together to make each day and every event truly special."

Purley Gardens Care Home are proud to offer a warm and supportive environment where couples like Roger and Audrey can continue to create beautiful memories together, surrounded by compassionate care and a vibrant community.